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Post by Sabrina on Feb 9, 2007 22:46:28 GMT -5
She might be able to date who she wants at 16 legally but that does not mean her parents will let her.
Lol Hannah! See what you get for doing what your mom tells you? J/k. I bet they put the camera by the alcohol just for that reason.
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Post by KChris18 on Feb 10, 2007 0:43:14 GMT -5
that is true but they really can't tell her she can't at that point.
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Post by Sabrina on Feb 10, 2007 19:57:39 GMT -5
She'd still be under 18 and still a minor...so yeah...they could even get a restraining order if you piss them off....so just be careful, that's all I'm saying.
Oh, and don't think I'm against you. My boyfriend is two years older than I and I'm dying to be 16 so we can single date instead of group date. But like you said...I'll wait for him and he's waiting for me.
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Post by KChris18 on Feb 11, 2007 11:11:53 GMT -5
I know what you mean, but according to her, she would be able to at 16 because of North Carolina law, I'm not sure if that works or not, some places allow marriages at 16 without having to ask the parents.
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Post by Sabrina on Feb 11, 2007 13:27:31 GMT -5
You might want to double check that law, it doesn't sound right to me.
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Post by KChris18 on Feb 12, 2007 0:16:15 GMT -5
i know, its just what she said it said when she looked it up, but i will check myself just in case.
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Post by FF7 on Feb 12, 2007 6:33:43 GMT -5
Yes it must be the reason. I bet they'll be watching me everytime when I go near that Isle, haha.
Well I am a Singleton, so I am not really sure. I'm not really sure about American Laws either so I cannot help you with that. But her Parent's might just flip, they might flip even more if they find out that you two will get married. Are you sure that is what you want? Her first love as a Husband, you might get it wrong and find out that you don't love her at all.
I'm not against you, and niether is Sabrina. We just care and are worried about you.
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Post by KChris18 on Feb 12, 2007 9:33:12 GMT -5
I am sure that this is what i want, and i believe it is what she wants. Maybe once she is of age, they will understands, it seems from what she was saying, that her mother understands how she feels.
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Post by KChris18 on Feb 12, 2007 14:25:42 GMT -5
found the law. here it is.
North Carolina
The age of consent in North Carolina in general is 16, though no school faculty member can have any sexual activity with any student more than 4 years their junior {§14‑27.7}. Any sexual intercourse with a 13-15 year old is prohibited unless the defendant is less than 6 years older than the victim {§14‑27.2, 14‑27.4 & 14‑27.7A}.
There is no defense that the victim is the spouse of person committing the act {§14‑27.8}.
North Carolina General Statutes Chapter 14
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Post by Sabrina on Feb 12, 2007 22:17:28 GMT -5
Ok, there's your sex laws...but none about dating or when a minor can disobey their parent.
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Post by FF7 on Feb 13, 2007 5:46:45 GMT -5
Hm. Is there a Law also on Dating, like Sabrina said? You said her mother understands how she feels, well I suppose that can be a good thing. At least she is not exactly over reacting. I always find it easier to talk to my Mum than my Dad.
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Post by Sabrina on Feb 13, 2007 9:24:38 GMT -5
I agree with Hannah. My mom is fine with me having a boyfriend but SHE said I shouldn't tell dad because he would freak. If her mom is on her side then there is much hope for you two
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Post by KChris18 on Feb 13, 2007 9:36:51 GMT -5
Yes i know, that is a good thing.
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Post by FF7 on Feb 13, 2007 13:39:45 GMT -5
It is a good thing. I think my Dad would be fine with me having a Boyfriend, as long as he is at a suitable age, like 17 or 18, perhaps even 19 but that is pushing it abit. He always jokingly tells me to not kiss Boys whilst out Shopping. ^^ There should be much hope for you, like Sabrina said.
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Post by Sabrina on Feb 13, 2007 16:37:42 GMT -5
My mom jokingly tells me not to kiss any boys when I go to the movies.... if only she knew >_>
Give it time Kchris18
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